The Protocol
Catch the voice. Is it telling you that one mistake means you're fundamentally broken? That voice is lying. It's been lying for years.
Speak to yourself like someone you are responsible for helping. A younger version of you. A friend. A small dog with a bad week.
If you actually hurt someone, apologise simply. Once. No grovelling. Then act differently next time.
Body before brain. Walk. Shower. Eat. Sleep. Shame thrives on stillness in the dark. Don't feed it.
